Jonstone, 42

im 5'10 with dirty blonde hair and blue eyes... im from philadelphia and im a recovering bad boy who wants nothing more than to settle down and enjoy life at this stage...im a full time student majoring in social work... i enjoy much more than snowboarding, amusement parks, movies, reading and poetry but they came to me quickly so i think they'll work... im pretty versatile in that i can hold an intelligent conversation as well as act like an idiot... its a very fine line i tread but i think playfulness is a must. i love life today and im always working to make myself a better person in that i try to nurture the spirit inside of me with principles i consider very important such as honesty, openmindedness, faith, hope and love... i want a woman who is independant and doesn't need me but makes me better in that she pushes me to be the best i can be... she's tender, loving and likes to cuddle but will put me in my place.... patience is a plus... it'd be nice if she was laid back yet driven tho im not sure that is possible... she learns from her mistakes but doesn't have to as much because she has the ability to learn from the mistakes of others. she must have a sense of humor... i appreciate intelligence so she would make me think... i dunno... i guess i just wanna be happy too....