Fihadu, 45

My name is Erick, I enjoy playing basketball, training basketball players, working out, & meeting new friends. I'm looking for someone special to spend my time with, not just anybody. If you want to know what I want in a relationship, just listen to "Someone" by "Musiq Soulchild". I'm the type of guy that if I don't think you're into me the way I need someone to be into me, I just take it as "Not working out" and I move on to someone else. I love women that are assertive, & go getters. I like to have a good time, but I'm not into games. If I feel a girl is playing games, I just move on. I also aspire to grow my business into something huge so I can take care of my family, & leave money for my children's children to inherit. I think the one thing about me that's more unique than anything else is how open & honest I am about everything. I hope I never hurt someone I love because of it, but I know it can be a possibility. I do have trust issues, if you meet me you'll most likely see that in me (If I think you are asking too many personal questions, I start to answer then with some what vague answers... Just don't go too fast). If I do start a relationship with someone on here, if you want to be with me you'll have to go slow. Not with spending time because I love spending time with a young lady I'm wanting to get to know, but as far as the emotional side of things. That would have to move slow (But slow for me, might not be slow for you), or I'll get freaked out really fast. Just being honest. And this is just me having my heart on my sleeve... In person, I'm pretty relaxed. But then again, we can all be seen as a different person from every person we meet. Judge me for yourself. I love R&B, if you can sing (And not like someone tone deaf that THINKS they can sing, but someone that when you're singing a stranger will walk up to you and say "That was beautiful...") You can have my heart from the moment you sing to me on. Hope to hear from you soon